Are my talks are injury prevention making a difference?  Take a look at some of the comments I’ve received through the years – it’s means a lot to mean hear their feedback!

A follow-up from my talk at Valhalla High School:

Hi Monica,
The school is still buzzing about your presentation. (4/7/10) I cannot thank you enough. 

Also, I spoke to the President of our school PTO (formerly PTA) and she is extremely interested in having you out to speak to the parents before our school year ends. I was hoping you would have some availability one evening between now and mid-June. If so, I will meet with her and our VP to see when we can schedule the theater. If you can do it, are there are days or weeks that are not
good for you. Again, it would be an evening time so parents could attend.
Thank you again, I look forward to hearing from you!

R. Brooks

PS. As you probably know….today is National NO PHONE ZONE Day!!!
So far we have collected almost 300 signed No Phone Zone car pledges from students and staff and they are still coming in to me each day! 
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April 7, 2010: Following four driving safety assemblies I delivered at Valhalla High School today, I received the following card:

Monica – I cannot thank you enough for taking the time to present to the students and staff at Valhalla High!  Your presentation was fantastic and I know you touched many lives today.  It was wonderful meeting you and I look forward to the opportunity to work with you again! 

Sincerely,

R. Brooks

On March 14, 2010: I just returned from Miami where I was invited to speak to students and their parents at a private high school called Gulliver Preparatory. I delivered two talks on March 11, 2010.  I first spoke to the students (9th-10th-11th & 12th grade levels) and then to their parents. Here is a comment I received from the host parent Lisa about my talks:

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Another very nice comment following a safe driving talk I delivered to a Yacht Club in the beach area.  Received October 9, 2009.

Hi Monica,

I have been meaning to send you a note letting you know how much we enjoyed your talk our M. B. Yacht Club.  Your speech did have an impact!  That same evening there was an event at the club where alcohol was being served.  One of the ladies that attended the meeting came up to me and said she and her husband had decided to spend the night on their boat at the club after the party.  She said normally they would have driven home but your talk reinforced what they both knew and was a good reminder on drinking and driving. 

Thank you again for speaking to our club.  I was thinking it would be beneficial to invite the juniors to this type of presentation next time.  I won’t be the president of the group next year but I will pass on your contact information and the positive feedback I received to next year’s president.  If there is anything the club can do for you please let me know.

 Sharon B.

Received this comment 9/2/09 following a safe driving and disaster preparedness talk to a mobile home community in Santee:

Received this comment on 5/14/09 following a safe driving talk I delivered to a traffic school on 5/09/09 – thank you!

Monica Zech,
I’m just E-maling you to thank you for doing such a wonderful job speaking at the CBI traffic school this past Saturday. I also wanted to let you know I just saw you on the morning edition of San Diego 6 news as the safety spokesperson. You are doing a great job all together and I hope you will continue to inspire other young drivers like you did for me.
Sincerely,
C.W.

Received following a driving safety lectures to educators at a local University on 1/12/09:

Monica- I wanted to drop you a note to say “Thank You” for taking the time out of your busy schedule to come and speak at Prof. Graf’s Health Education class last week. Your presentation was really eye opening and I’ve been making better decisions ever since!

Thanks again and I hope to one day call you up to come speak to my class.

Best, B. Ratner

Dear Monica,
I met you at Dr. Graph’s health class at National University. I am a special education teacher at a local High School. My students are 18-22 years old. I’m sure my students would be impressed and shocked by how dangerous walking around the streets could be. I thank you for everything you do for children and to ensure public safety.

I always think of how many people suffer or die needlessly on our roads. It upsets me to hear of anyone dying, but these people are not at war and shouldn’t have to go through that. Thank you for everything that you do to help people become more aware of safety.

God Bless you,
Carlos

Received December 11, 2008

Following a safe driving lecture to Navy Personnel in Point Loma:

Dear Ms. Monica,

Thank you for your time spent with us this week at our All Hands (military) Safety Brief. I found your brief interesting, educative, and (morbidly) entertaining.

While I have never seen the level of trauma you have, I do have a bit of time volunteering with a county fire department.as a firefighter/EMT, and as an auxiliary police officer. I’ve seen what speed can do when a small car hits a telephone pole at high speed.

(After hearing my talk) I have slowed down, given a 3-4 second distance in following, compared to the 1.5-2.5 I used to, and have caught myself looking several times both ways before proceeding through a controlled intersection. Not much, but at least I will have more reaction time if I am involved in something I can’t avoid.

It really brought it home when you shared with us the loss of your father, and the incident your daughter was in.

Again, thank you for your time.

Best Regards,
Ken L. L.
Chief Petty Officer, U.S. Navy

Following a driving safety talk on November 10, 2008:

Hi Monica,

Just wanted to thank you again for so graciously and expertly presenting last night for AAUW. Everyone was raptly attentive, and I think we all learned some interesting, new things along with being graphically reminded of much we know, but often forget to follow! You certainly know your material, and your passion and sincerity come through glowingly. Well done! Just had an email from our president, Rilla, and she expressed her praises for your talk, and wished she could have heard the full 2 hr. presentation! Ever thought of starting a Fan Club? Please know how much I appreciate your willingness to give up so much time for my group.

G.C.

Following a driving safety talk to a Kiwanis Group in La Jolla, October 24, 2008:

Monica,

Thank you for your presentation. You did a terrific job. One highly reliable mark of a good presentation is when people stay over to talk to the speaker, voting with their feet as it were. You had lots and lots of people doing so. So, kudos!

R. C., C. Law Firm

Received August 12, 2008

Following a driving safety lecture to the San Diego Gas & Electric office in El Cajon:

Monica,

I am late, but don’t want miss the deserved opportunity to say how enjoyable it was to hear you at SDG&E’s Safety Standdown in El Cajon. In so many, many ways you informed and educated employees on driving and it’s potential ugly consequences. Personally, I didn’t want to drive back to the home office or go home that day. Again, your energy and passion was remarkable!

Thanks,

R.G.
Business Systems Analyst

Received May 21, 2008:

Hi Monica,

My name is C.M. and I was privileged to attend your presentation at our monthly TIP continuing education meeting Monday evening. Along with most of my fellow volunteers, we were terrified to drive home that night but certainly came away from your presentation with many sobering facts and figures. Thanks so much for the “wake-up call/reminder” to our group…..especially some of us more “mature” drivers!

Thanks again for a most informative evening!

Regards, C. M.
(T.I.P. is Trauma Intervention Program)

Received May 18, 2008
From a parent whose child attends 3rd grade at Our Lady of Grace Church Academy in El Cajon:

I have to tell you what an impact you’ve had on my daughter! Whenever you come to their classroom to speak on safety she is very excited. She can’t wait to get home to tell me all about the safety information you delivered to her classroom of students. Thank you & Bless you for all you do for our children – and our community! – Ms. Church

(Yes, that’s her name)

(Thank you Ms. Church your comments meant a lot to me. – Monica )

Received January 8, 2008 following my talk to a Navy Pilot group at North Island Military base:

Monica,

Thank you again for yet another outstanding presentation to HSL-47! We greatly appreciate the commitment of time that you have given to us, and we are more safe on the roads and at home, and are better prepared for the “unknowns” out there. If we can ever assist you in any way, please don’t hesitate to ask.

Sincerely,

J. Melody – North Island Base

(THANK YOU MILITARY FOR PROTECTING OUR COUNTRY! – Monica Zech)

My goal is to get out to schools – grade school through College – to speak on the do’s and don’ts of going after a great career-future. I recently (9/19/07) spoke to medical students on the various jobs in the EMS-Emergency Medical Field…apparently I got my point across:

Hi Monica,

I heard you speak at SDSU in Professor Graf’s class last week. I just wanted to email you and thank you for your powerful presentation. It definitly made an impact on me. You opened my eyes to more possible career opportunities and you motivated me to stay in the health field even more. I never have thought of working as an EMT, or 911 dispatcher, yet now that I know of them in more detail they are on my list to consider!

Thank you again for your motivation and guidance. I am at a point where I am lost and trying decide which road to take after I get my bachelors in Public Health. I have two semesters left to decide, and your words helped me realize how much I want to work one on one with people.

Sincerely,
A.S. – SDSU Student

*In June I was very honored to speak to audience of doctors and nurses at a trauma conference, I’ve posted their very nice letter of appreciation.

August 28, 2007

Dear Monica Zech:

We would like to express our gratitude for your excellent presentation “From What I See –Why the Rush to Die” at our June 29, 2007 Advanced Trauma Symposium. The participants consistently evaluated your presentation highly. We thoroughly enjoyed your presentation style – and so admire and appreciate your message. We sincerely thank you for your time and expertise in making this a successful program.

Sincerely,
M. Hilfiker, MD,Ph.D. J.Bergman, MSN, RN
Medical Director Educator
Trauma Services Trauma Services

*It’s always my honor and pleasure to speak to the military! On July 6th I had the honor of speaking to the crew of the U.S.S. Boxer. About 1000 were in attendance:

Hi Monica,
People are still talking about some of the stuff you showed. Just walking around the ship I’ve overheard people talking about this or that from the presentation. In my experience that’s pretty unusual as almost always an hour after the presentation is over, people have no clue as to what was put out. Thanks once again for appearing on such short notice and giving us a memorable presentation. In all likelihood we may call on you in the future.
V/R Lewie
USS Boxer

*It’s also an honor to speak to High School Seniors, giving them the tools to making good decisions in reaching their career goals…

From Monte Vista High School & Assistant Principal Donald Carroll:

Dear Ms. Zech:
The Monte Vista Staff and Senior Class wishes to thank you for your presentation to drunk driving and the problem that the mixing of alcohol and automobiles can create.

The video presentation (power point) was a very real look at what can actually happen to those who are driving impaired. Many students made positive comments and left the presentation with a greater awareness and vowed not to drive under the influence.

Once again, thank you for your time.

I’ve been doing school assemblies to “freshman” students at high schools since they’ll soon be getting their drivers licenses…on May 2nd, 2007, I spoke to 9th grade students at an assemly at Santana High School – and received a very nice thank you:

Monica – On behalf of the 9th grade students and staff at Santana High School, I want to thank you for the information and engaging presentation you gave. I think you should be pleased to know that all our teachers reported their students engaged in lively conversations the next day. You made quite an impact!

With Our Sincere Thanks – N. Magee

In my career talks – I love to inspire youth to pursue life-saving careers:

Received 3/15/07

Dear Ms. Zech:

I recently met you when you visited my traffic school session in Escondido and gave a powerful and touching presentation a few weeks ago. I asked for an informational booklet on the El Cajon Fire Department. After reading it I became very interested in pursuing my career into the fire service. I would really like to become a paramedic or even a fire fighter. My friend and I have already set up a ride along with a North County area Fire Department. I am very excited and I cannot wait! I would like to know if it wouldn’t be too much trouble if you can send and give me more information on becoming a paramedic or fire fighter. Thank you very much it will be very well appreciated!

Sincerely,
V.Martinez

Following a talk to a teacher’s group in Pacific Beach:

Sent February 13, 2007

Hi Monica,
I saw a presentation by you in a class I was taking from G.Graf last month in Pacific Beach. I was deeply affected by your lecture and was wondering if you would possibly consider speaking to my church’s youth group sometime in May. I spoke with our youth minister and she is interested if you are available. If you can do it, I will provide you with her contact information. Thank you for your time.
Sincerely,
M.Ulrich

Following my talk to a utility company in Downey, California July 24, 2006

Hi Monica

I wanted to thank you for a fantastic presentation yesterday. You really were the highlight of our meeting! People couldn’t stop talking about how informative and real your message was. I think you hit home in such a huge way and I truly believe that you’ve impacted each and every one of our lives. And for that, I thank you very much!

It was such a pleasure meeting and having you at our first safety meeting. I don’t know if my counterparts in San Diego have used you before, but I will definitely pass along your name and contact information for their next safety meeting. I hope that we can work with you on future safety meetings.

Take Care!
L.De Hoop
Assoc. Program Manager, Customer Programs
Southern California Gas Company

*Following My Talk To The Marines At Miramar on November 21st, 2005:

Dear Ms. Zech,
I would like to offer my thanks for your outstanding driver-safety presentation at the HMH-361 Safety Stand-down. Your presentation on the consequences of traffic violations, aggressive driving, road rage and driving under the influence was exactly the upfront type of training needed by our Marines. The visual aids provided graphic amplification to the points presented in the brief and kept the audience focused. I sincerely hope that our Marines incorporate the information you provided to become more conscientous, defensive and safe drivers. Your initiative and professionalism are a credit to you, the El Cajon Fire Department and the City of El Cajon. On behalf of the Marines of HMH-361, thank you for a job well done.
Sincerely, R.L. Caputo Jr., Commanding Officer

Following a recent talk to a parenting group:

Thank you Monica for your wonderful presentation!!! You make this world a better place for children and families! You are one of my hero’s in this world!!! Everyone is still talking about what they have learned. The seeds of knowledge you plant really sprout and grow very strong. One Mom mentioned how she went right home and had a talk with her husband, especially about the road rage business. She is proudly taking a stand and really educated him on what she had learned. “I never cease to be amazed.”
L.Osborn
Parent Education Instructor, Grossmont Adult School, Grossmont Union High School District

Following a fire safety presentation to 3rd graders at Magnolia Elementary in El Cajon on 9-23-05:

Dear Monica,
Thank you for presenting the “Fire Safety Assembly for Third Graders” at Magnolia Elementary School on Friday, Sept. 23rd. The students loved it! You are such a celebrity and the students greatly enjoyed your presentation! Your message was taken to heart by everyone there.

Thank you for bringing the three firefighters too! Even though they couldn’t stay for the entire session, they were as popular as ROCK STARS by the crowd of children!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I am not kidding. Their uniformed presence and friendly nods held the children in awe of them. You can be sure the Magnolia audiences really appreciate their visitors!

Thanks again for your wonderful work! You are such a lovely person and a fantastic role model for kids – and teachers as well!

From,
J.Dutcher
Teacher & Assembly Coordinator

Email following safety talk in June at Our Lady Of Peace Academy’s Driver’s Ed class:

6-10-05
Dear Ms. Zech,
I was in the class for drivers education at OLP this week and I heard your presentation. Your speaking really reached through to all of us, and I can see that it will be very beneficial to all of us also. Thank you very much for taking your time to speak to all of us, and your dedication to help us realize the importance of safe driving.

Sincerely – A.D.

Letter from Driver’s Ed & Health Teacher at Sweetwater High 5/26/05:

Dear El Cajon Fire Chief Mike Scott;
Ms. Zech’s persentations about traffic safety is a wonderful compliment to my driver’s education and health classes here at Sweetwater High School. Her amplified golden voice captures the attention of the students. The slide program, with it’s high impact photos holds their attention. Thank you for allowing Ms. Zech present to my classes, I look forward to her return next year.

Sincerely,
C. Yamashiro

Following talk to a Twin’s Club in Poway 4/19/05:

Thank YOU Monica! Your presentation was phenomenal. I left there wishing that every friend and family member of mine was there to hear it as well! You do amazing work and I’m sure you are saving lives every day with the things you say. I know I will certainly drive differently and more cautiously than I have in the past. I love what you said about “karma” and that accidents are NO accidents. What a different perspective to have in our heads while driving and dealing with pushy drivers.

I’m sorry for the losses you’ve had in your own family. It’s easy to see why you feel so passionate about car safety! It’s clear to me that you are fulfilling your “purpose” all right! You are honoring the memory of your Dad and Sister every day. Thanks again, so much for taking the time to speak to our club. I know we’d absolutely love to have you speak to us again. Only next time I will encourage everyone to bring their spouses and friends!

Thanks again for your time and wonderful presentation!!! It was truly OUR pleasure,

Sincerely,
J.Boaz
Twin Club Poway

I was very honored to speak recently to a large group of 450 Marines, just back from Iraq, at Camp Pendelton on traffic safety…

From their GySgt: (Sent: 10/25/04)

There were approximately 450 people there for your presentation last week. Thank you so much for a fine presentation. I have received a number of positive comments. I am sure your presentation hit home for a number of Marines in the audience. With the help of people like you, we can make a difference!

Semper Fidelis,
GySgt B. Voss

Sent: September 15, 2004
Following S.D.G. & E. Safety Stand-down In Miramar

Thank you Monica, Your presentation was great!!! And very well received by everyone. Keep up the good work!!

And To: Marie, Thank you for your great selection of Monica for our stand-down.

T.Harris
S.D.G. & E.
Electric Meters Operations

Same lecture, another comment:

October 14, 2004
Monica,
Thank you again for presenting at our Stand Down! Your presentation and materials were awesome – I really think you made a positive impact on many of us.

H.J. Vanderlinde

Sent: August 24, 2004
From a Driver’s Education Instructor

Monica……….
Thank you for the article. I will use it in Drivers Ed as well as in Traffic Violater School for La Mesa Driving School. Keep up the good work. You are doing an excellent job for us and I always welcome hearing you speak!

M. Young

Sent: August 3rd, 2004
Re: Safety Talk Sept. 30 – Construction Co. Group

Monica: Thank you for providing the resources to the public that you do. I believe you ARE making a difference in people’s lives, their way of thinking and giving them food for thought. We can always improve on how we can help others, our families and ourselves. Thanks for being there.

Sincerely,
S.Young

Sent: August 2, 2004

RE: Traffic Safety Presentation Sept. 30, 2004 – Construction Co. Mgrs. Group

Greetings Monica, and thanks again for your work on Friday. I believe you made a big impact on our group and their were several folks who commented positively afterward.

J. Betts

Sent: June 29th, 2004

Hello Ms. Zech,
I am the guy from Helix Water Dist. who asked you today about the collision at Mollision and Main. Thanks again and I truly enjoyed your part of today’s class.

You are an excellent speaker.

Thanks,
D. Martin

Sent: Monday, July 12, 2004 – 11:12 AM

You gave your talks on driver safety and fire safety at SDG&E’s December Safety Standown 03′. You were my favorite speaker that we had all year. I had heard your talk at a different standown when I was a meter reader. I wanted the department I work for now to be exposed to the same information. Our company is very safety conscious.

Your graphic pictures helped to remind us what happens if we don?t follow what we have been taught. Your timely presentation impacted our group, EGIM.

K. Sanchez
Safety Committee
Semprautilities

Following Safety Talk to Friends of Lake Murray, 3/18/04

You should be commended for the mission (on safety) that you have undertaken. I hope that you are. I drove my grandson home from the meeting (to my house) and he told me that I was 5 seconds (following distance) behind my daughter’s car. He said that that was good because 4 seconds would be acceptable.

I saw several people that were at the meeting, at the lake this morning. They loved your talk. Thank you so much. My grandson’s attention never wavered from you. He was riveted on your every word.

Take care and blessings back to you.
B. Cleves

Following Safety Talk to 1st & 2nd Grade Students, 3/1/04

Hi Monica,
The kids loved you! I already had some ask me to write down the web site address, so that they could look up additional info and write to you from home. I loved how engaged they were–it was great! Thanks sooooo much again!!! I’m sure you’ll be hearing from us soon.

Teacher: J. Tyrone

Following Safety Talk To A Teachers Group, 2/7/04

Dear Monica,
I want you to know the depth and value of your message in me. I examined my own life and current habits. I live in Julian so driving to Carlsbad twice a week is tough on me and my family. Looking back (thanks to you), I realize I often drive my little econo-box Toyota Echo way too fast. Living in the country, I am also libel to pass others driving under the influence. My two children are the world to me, and I appreciate your reminder to
stack the safety odds in my favor. Furthermore, I’m going to start discussing seat belt safety with my 3rd and 4th graders, as I’m sure many of their parents lack the education for me to trust that all those kids are always wearing their seat belts. I’m working on a
lesson in my head right now.

Anyway, I want to pas this on and make sure you keep saving lives. We’ll never know if you today saved my life, or one of my family members. In the big picture it’s highly probable.

Please forward this note to the Fire Department or any others who might be interested in the value of your current position. I’m going to pass on your information to our school’s resource center. Our little high school needs your services!

V.Copeland
Julian, CA

Talks To Adults/Parents:

Following Talk to S.D.G. & E. Employee Safety Stand Down 12/11/03

Subject: THANK YOU
Sent: 12/11/03

Thank you for your wonderful presentation at today’s SDG&E EGIM’s Safety Standown. I meant to pause for a moment with you at the end and just say a prayer for your upcoming surgery. And, may you wake up and be free from pain and any long lasting symptoms from your injuries.” (Injuries from a stop sign runner causing a collision 8/29/03)

I was sorry to hear of your father’s death, too, (killed by a DUI driver 6/92) and understood completely how that must have happened, because I was almost hit the same way not too long ago.

J. R. Mitchell
Business Analyst
SempraUtilities.com

Sent: 11/5/03

Dear Monica;
I just want to say, how much I personaly enjoyed your presentation this past Tuesday. I value all the information that you have passed on to me, and will carry it with me for the rest of my life! In addition my children will benefit from the knowledge I have obtained from you.

Once again, THANK YOU!!!

Sincerely K. Burke.

In the last few years I’ve developed a lecture that addresses “new” parents, or soon to be parents in which I talk about being a better “safety role model” for their children, and the mistakes we often make as parents without realizing it. The response from these talks has been over-whelming as shown in the following emails.

Sent: 5/20/03

Dear Monica Zech,

I would like to thank you once more for your presentations. Parents were grateful for the information. It was so much of an impact that a male parent kept his wife awake until 3:00 a.m. talking about what he had learned that night. Another parent, (female) admitted driving under the influence once in a while, not anymore! I wanted you to know that you make a difference and we are very grateful.

Thank you for answering all our questions. Hope to see you in my future parent education classes.

Teresa Verduzco
Grossmont Adult School Instructor
Vista La Mesa/Golden Avenue

Date: 2/11/03
From: L. Bogan
To: El Cajon Fire Chief Ed Jarrell

Monica Zech made a safe driving presentation to my parent education class at Foothills last Thursday evening. (February 6th) I wanted to let you know that she put on a fantastic presentation. I have heard “safe driving” talks dozens of times, but her presentation was different. Her manner isn’t to lecture and cram her beliefs down your throat, she just told us why she doesn’t do certain things. It really made me, and others in the class, realize the risks we take without realizing it (and the horrible consequences of our actions). I’ve caught myself doing “DWS” maneuvers and changed my driving behavior in just a these past few days (why does her distinctive voice keep haunting me when I get behind the wheel?!?). I wanted to pass on to you what a great job Monica is doing in the community.

(DWS-refers to the term “driving while stupid”- this is basically driving less than 100% alert behind the wheel, motorists do a variety of things to impair themselves behind the wheel, it’s not just DUI.)

Date: 5/14/01 (Girl Scout Meeting)
From: S.J.M

Dear Monica,

Your words at our home that evening have echoed through many teenage ears. God knows His Works are through you. According to my friend E, her twin girls will never question her again about “not trusting their friends”. They now agree with her if she asks them not to ride with certain kids. My seven year old is now playing the seatbelt race game, after you mentioned your daughter did this. My eldest daughter has told lots of other people and said that you were totally not boring and the programs at Girl Scouts is looking to coordinate an older girl forum of Hot Topics and ask you to speak.

Thanks,
SWM
El Cajon

Teen Talks:

I love talking to teens, especially in driver education/training courses – it’s always nice when a teen, or their parent, takes a moment to comment about my talks:

From: HC/Valley Center High School
Sent: Thursday, March 06, 2003 3:49 PM

Hi, I would just like to thank you for your presentation in our driver’s ed class yesterday. That class has taught me so much about driving safety, thanks to speakers like you, I’m sure it will help me many times in the future. Thanx again.

From the parent of a teen:

Hi Monica,
Thank you so much for your wonderful talk last Saturday Morning. My son, Trevor, came home just bubbling over telling me all about how really terrific you are! I really think the lessons you taught sank in for him. He was most impressed with your gallery of photos and described nearly all of them in great detail to me.

It’s really great to know there are people like you in this world who can get through to teenagers when “Mom” can’t and inspire them to “do the right thing”.

Thanks again,
J. C.

From another parent:

Both my sons heard you speak at Valley Center High’s Driver’s Ed class. They said you were great. That is as high of a compliment that you can receive from teenagers. Have a great week.

Thanks,
J. Dorschel
Financial Services Professional

Response On Disaster Preparedness Talk:

Sent: 5/12/03

Dear Monica,
I want to thank you loads for the great talk that you gave at our Home Owners Association meeting. It was absolutely perfect, and just exactly what we were hoping for. We are trying to generate enthusiasm for our Emergency Disaster Program within our resident community, and it is slow in coming. We have our share of elderly infirm people who want and expect to be helped, but those who can and will do the helping are few and far between. So we are trying to get the message across that each individual household is responsible for its own emergency food, water, etc. You hit the nail on the head. We all thank you.

Thank you again, Monica. You are such an asset to East County.
S.Sizemore

More Public Response:

Following a guest appearance on a KPBS radio show on “Aggressive Driving”, I mentioned my safety web site. In response, I received quite a few emails from those who miss my traffic reports and thanked me for being so involved with safety. I thank you for your compliments. Your comments were very much appreciated and heartwarming.But the following email touched me deeply….

From: Mr. G. Dixon

Subject: A Monica story
I have a friend who is a Vietnam War veteran , as I am. Some years ago, “Ed” told us that he still got uneasy when he heard a helicopter flying overhead. That surprised me because that sound is still welcome to me; it reminds me of a chopper bringing chow and mail, or taking me to a better place.

An astute therapist at the VA asked “Ed” if he ever heard Monica Zech giving the traffic info on the radio. “Ed” said yes, he liked that smooth, beautiful voice. The therapist said – “So, think of Monica sitting in that chopper flying over head telling us about the traffic.”

I saw “Ed” about a year later and he told me he was a new man, and didn’t worry about helicopter noise anymore. True story.

Give yourself a pat on the back, Monica.

G. Dixon

Web Site Surfing Feedback:

From: Botswana, Africa
Sent: Tuesday, October 01, 2002 5:03 PM
Subject: Enquiry
Hello Ms. Zech,
I read and appreciated your article on photo enforcement and I would like to make a proposal to my local municipal office on this issue. I know this may be a bit out of your field but is it possible that you link me up with a solution provider for this kind of endeavor. Or if you have another solution to my request I would appreciate it.

Hoping for a favorable reply.
Kind regards,
B.N., Botswana

(Yes-I did send him the information he requested ASAP)

Hi Monica,

Just read your post (of safety comments) at ncdsa.com and wanted to say thanks. I never really WANT to put on my helmet and pads but always do, ever since becoming a mom! I can’t stomach the thought of leaving my little guy motherless just for the sake of an equipment-less ride. Plus, I have to do the role model thing now…anyway, just wanted to say I appreciate it. Hope all those guys do.
B. Odanaka, Laguna Beach
www.SkateboardMom.com
“We flip for children’s books!”

From: H.L. Hamilton, PsyD
Program Director, Youth-to-Youth Helpline – 858-581-5885To Monica Zech,More Coments From The Military Bases:Here are a few emails I’ve received following Safety Talks at the MCRD Miramar Base Theater and Camp Pendleton – I had a great time!From: Manuel Moralez III, Air Traffic Control, MCAS Camp Pendleton
“I am one of the civilian employees at Camp Pendleton. I attended your presentation this morning and just wanted to say thanks for the effort you put into helping us stop and really look into safety. I was thinking this was going to be a general presentation of don’t drink and drive and everyone goes home. But towards the end when you made it personal about your life, it re-enforced the first 45 minutes of your presentation. I am amazed of how you were able to re-focus your experience and do good for others. thank you again Monica Zech.”

I want to thank you on behalf of the Youth-to-Youth Helpline for putting our (crisis) information on your website. One of our youth was able to access it by putting in keywords such as “youth and help and helpline”. We appreciate your support in getting the word out to the youth of San Diego County.

From: GySgt David Ward, in charge of organizing the Safety Stand Down
“Monica, I just wanted to thank you for your participation in our operational pause. You were awesome as usual. In fact, I wanted to provide you some feedback.”

From: Col Ken L. Jorgensen:
“From the RSU I’d like to thank you for a superb standdown. Msg was well received! I especially appreciate the brief given by Monica Zech…in my 23 years and numerous standdowns that was the best driver safety brief I have ever seen! Great Job!!!!”

From: Capt. J.C. H

Monica,

I saw your brief today at Camp Pendleton. It was the best I’ve seen in a long while. Thanks for sharing your knowledge and enthusiasm with us.
Semper Fi!

Dear Monica,
I was at the safety stand down at Camp Pendleton today. I thought you did an awesome job! As always though, theres those knuckleheads who will never listen and shrugg it off, and I hope they learn. Have a happy holiday, and God Bless!

Sincerely, Lcpl. L D.

“Thank you everyone!”
Monica Zech

Attention:  Conference Planners – Company Safety Stand-down Coordinators (Company & Military) – Schools & Colleges - Did you know that  a traffic collision is the number one cause of death from birth to age 44…and it’s our number one 9-1-1 call!  It’s also the number one reason for the loss of an employee!

My lectures provide a perspective most people don’t see – what “we” see as emergency responders.  A perfect compliment to other safe driving programs companies use…but, once you’ve seen my talk, you’ll never look at traffic the same way again. 

You’ll also curb poor driving behaviors that lead to the injury and death we respond to.   It is an eye-opening talk on what it takes to be safe while driving, riding or walking. 

My perspective comes from 18 years as a traffic reporter and collision researcher.  I offer tips on how to reduce your chances of becoming another statistic!   I give you the emergency agency point of view – and some personal perspective.

My talks address aggressive driving, distracted driving (cell phones/texting), dealing with stress and road rage, the dangers of red light running and rolling through STOP signs, plus a hard hitting look on motorcycle safety and of course the dangers of driving under the influence.  Driving safety-injury prevention is my passion!

These these thought provoking life-saving tips will help to improve the driving skills of your employees, military personnel and students.  I also offer an emergency agency point of view of the mistakes most often made – and how to avoid them!”

Contact me for your next safety briefing or safety stand-down, Company Conference, civic group, college or high school assembly, driver education class or traffic school class.

Through my work as a “safety educator” for a police and fire department, and through personal experience – my goal is to make my audiences more aware of what’s really happening on our roadways and how we can reduce the risk factor of having a collision - and increase our chances of survival.  Driving is serious business and I do not sugarcoat the message.   But I can cater my talks to cover your specific message.

If you’d like to contact me please call me at (619) 460-0299.  You can also email me at monicazech@cox.net.

Aside from driving safety I also address ways we can be better prepared for a disaster, such as an earthquake or fire.  Most of the 9-1-1 calls we respond to are “preventable!”

In “driving safety” lectures - I discuss “distracted, impaired and aggressive” driving…and how to deal with stress and road rage. Your own rage, or that of drivers you encounter. I combine government research, my own research and observation of over 30 years in news broadcasting, (18 years of that in traffic reporting, and my 7 1/2 years working directly with El Cajon firefighters & police. I also add real-life “personal experiences” with traffic.

I’m often asked to speak to grade schools on safety, especially for Red Ribbon weeks, DARE graduations and for career/motivational talks.  I also speak to high school seniors prior to proms and graduations – and at “Every 15 Minute” assemblies & retreats.

In safety, my perspective is from the emergency agency point of view – what we see when responding to the scene of a collision, fire or any incident …and some personal perspectives.

Areas addressed in my injury prevention talks:

• Common mistakes made by drivers.
• The dangers of driving aggressively – speeding, stress & rage and impaired driving – from cell phones, texting - to driving under the influence. I also address the deadly problem of Red Light Running and rolling through STOP signs. I explain how the Red Light Photo Enforcement system works.
• What happens when we don’t obey laws made for our safety – from not wearing seat belts, ignoring speed limits and the DUI issues.
• In addition, I offer a “personal” perspective. With over 30 years of driving experience I’ve encountered more than my share of bad drivers that resulted in minor to life threatening injuries. The most serious of my injuries was caused by a “STOP” sign runner. On the DUI subject – I loss my father to a DUI driver in June of 1992…and almost loss my daughter to a DUI driver in February of 2005.  So I know these issues first-hand.
• I also describe the dynamics of a crash – “WHY” we’re injured and killed in crashes. I offer photos and videos that give my audiences a visual example of these dynamics to back-up my data.
• Another important point – “I do not surgarcoat my message.”  I deal with reality – so some of my photos and videos can be powerful, and thought provoking.  I forewarn my audiences when a photo or video may be somewhat dramatic.  Keep in mind, this straight forward approach is much more effective in curbing poor driving behavior that often leads to the injury and death we see in emergency response.

*Of course, for younger audiences, I do not use any graphic images.

*Please take a moment and look at my comments/feedback section and you’ll see the very positive comments I’ve gotten from previous talks.

“My goal is to make my audience aware of the dangers that surround us – so they can make better decisions whether they’re walking, are behind the wheel – or riding as a passenger.”

In driving, my goal is to reduce the risk factors of having a collision.  Going to and from work, or if your job involves driving – my talks can help reduce the collision factor.

• Teen Talks: Traffic collisions are also the number one cause of death for teenagers, but most die as “passengers”.  I show the dynamics of a crash, and photos and videos that demonstrate the mistakes made by drivers everyday!
• Parenting Group Talks: YES – research shows “parents” are the direct role models for their children in most areas of life – “especially in the area of driving.”  Sadly, research has also shown more and more parents are injuring and killing their own children while driving under the influence of alcohol – and/or speeding.  I discuss priorities.  I’ve been able to help parents be more aware of the dangers they’re putting their families in every day! The mixed messages we send as parents.  The biggest question we need to ask ourselves as parents -“does alcohol mean more to you than the safety of our family?”  “Does speeding down the street or highway mean more to you than the safety of the family and/or friends riding with you?”   Using photos and videos and data I show some of the end results of those who forgot about the safety of their family by the way they drive.
• In “fire safety & disaster preparedness”: Through National and local research – and through the eyes of our firefighters, I can discuss the dangers of fire and how we can better protect ourselves, our families and our homes. I can also show photos from recent fires – and why some homes and lives were lost…and how we can better protect ourselves for the future.

Note: See my Safety Lecture Feedback section for comments from previous audiences.

*Note: I do speak outside the El Cajon area.   There are fees charged for Military Safety Stand-downs in the San Diego County area.  For companies , my fees are very reasonable.  My speakers fee is negotiable in working with your budget.  Remember, due to demand, it’s best to please call me well in advance of your event for better availability.

Among some of the groups I speak to:
Schools (all grade levels)
Life Skills Classes
Colleges
Driver education/training courses
Parenting Groups – (one of my favorites in developing better safety role models)
Company Safety Meetings/Briefings
Company Conferences
Major Safety Conferences
Military Base Safety Stand-downs
Traffic School
Career Talks – Motivational and for those interested in careers in EMS-Emergency Medical Services

Guest speaker for:
“Every 15 Minutes” presentations or retreats
“Red Ribbon Week”
“DARE” and other safety assemblies

If you’d like to arrange for me to speak to your group – please call me at (619) 460-0299 or send an e-mail request to  monicazech@cox.net

*In my safe driving lectures I address numerous driving behaviors that lead to the collisions we see on our roadways, one of those areas covered is “aggressive driving.”  On this subject is the following…

My Special Dedication:   When addressing the subject of aggressive driving I dedicate my talks to the memory of someone very special who was killed by an “aggressive driver” – his name is “Mr. Durham Sprague”. (Seated in the center above)  He was a retired Carlsbad Firefighter, who raised 4 children, three of them sons, all Carlsbad Firefighters, along with a wonderful daughter, a newspaper/magazine journalist…and one of my best friends – Jeannie!  (She’s seated on the far left in the picture above.)

Mr. Sprague was killed on hwy 805 near Murray Ridge as he attempted to merge into lanes when an aggressive-reckless driver, speeding and weaving through traffic, struck Mr. Sprague’s vehicle causing him to roll off the freeway.  The driver who struck and killed Mr. Sprague had a history of reckless driving.  Sadly, aggressive driving kills and injures everyday on our roadways.  This type of driving which often leads to the road rage factor.   My safety lectures address “aggressive driving” and curbing the rage.  How to deal with stress and road rage, either your own rage or that of other drivers.  My lectures will open your eyes to the dangers and how you can reduce the dangers on our roadways.   

My dedication to safety is to provide my audience with  a “professional and personal” look at what it takes to increase your survival on our streets and highways, and at home!  How to avoid making the same mistakes others have made that caused their collision.  I’ll make you more aware of the problems we  see daily at our 9-1-1 emergency calls, what you may have missed hearing or seeing about in the news, and all the latest stats. My goal is to make you more aware of these problems that surround us to reduce the “risk factors” of having a collision.  ”What you don’t know, can kill or injure you…or someone you care about!”

*These talks have been in big demand for driving education/training courses, schools(all levels), traffic schools, Life Skills Classes, Parenting classes, military safety stand downs and for company safety conferences and briefings.  I do utilize some stats in my talks, but I put faces with those stats.  Most are local faces, including yours truly.   But keep in mind I do not “sugar coat” the issues since my goal is to save lives!  (But for young children I am careful.)

*Parents of young children – did you know over 90% of safety car seats are not installed correctly.   So you’ll know the law and what it takes to protect your children, check one or more of the following sites – Office of Traffic Safety, California Highway Patrol, Safety Belt Safe U.S.A. – or check my section on this web site regarding safety car seats – “Is Your Child Buckled Up Correctly?”

*Parents of teens! – Are you concerned about your teen driver(s)? You should be since the number one cause of death for our teenagers are traffic collisions!   Did you also know “parents” are the direct role models for their children, especially in the area of “driving!” Listen to one of my lectures and you’ll learn how to be a safer role model for your family.

*Graduated Licensing Is Saving Lives” in reducing the death rate among teenage drivers! What is it, how does it work and what are the rules/laws? Check here – Graduated Licensing – compliments of the Automobile Club of Southern California .

Any of these talks have been ideal for company safety meetings & conferences.

If you’d like me to speak to your group just give me a call at (619) 460-0299 or e-mail me at monicazech@ cox.net .  Yes – I can speak outside the El Cajon area. There may be a fee for certain talks delivered to companies, or company conferences – these talks, outside the city or state, are negotiable.  There is usually not a charge for military bases, schools and non-profit groups.  If long distance travel is involved there may be a small charge involved – but not for talks to our military.

In August of 2001, Monica Zech, a native San Diegan, made the biggest and most rewarding career change of her life! She chose to leave the world of broadcasting to become the Public Information Officer and Safety Educator for the El Cajon Fire Department. A decision she has never regretted! On July 18th, 2005, Monica was then promoted to be the Public Information Officer for the City of El Cajon, and still provide Safety Education on behalf of the El Cajon Police & Fire Departments.  She also writes articles on safety and appears on local television news segments giving valuable safety advice.  She continues what she loves doing most – providing safety lectures in the community – since “safety/injury prevention” is Monica’s passion!

Monica has been involved in broadcasting for more than thirty-five years. Her broadcasting career highlights; In 1971, at the age of 16, she became the first female broadcast intern at KGTV, Ch. 10, from Crawford High School. She went on to work for a variety of radio stations as a news reporter/anchor. In January of 1984 she became San Diego’s first female airborne traffic reporter, and soon after – San Diego’s first television traffic reporter for both the NBC and ABC local affiliates and heard on ten radio stations.   Since 1984 Monica has been delivering lectures on safety throughout San Diego, Los Angeles and Riverside Counties.  Since 1984 to the present, she has received numerous news, safety and community service awards. (see her awards section)

Although Monica enjoyed her work as a reporter, she most enjoyed her research and lectures in the community on traffic safety and overall injury prevention.  Since the begining, she has delivered these lectures on her own time, after work, evenings and weekends – and would often use all her vacation and sick leave hours to deliver her safety messages.  By representing the City of El Cajon, Police & Fire Departments, she is now able provide safety education as a full-time career. But, due to her passion for safety – she still uses her off hours and vacation hours to lecture outside the city of El Cajon.

It was during her first year as a traffic reporter in 1984, while conducting research and working with local emergency agencies, trauma room doctors and various transportation and safety organizations, that Monica saw the “crucial” need to add safety education advice to her traffic reports – and to lecture on traffic safety in the community.

But, after twelve years of safety lecturing, Monica’s work in traffic safety took on an even deeper meaning, when on June 5th, 1992, her own father was struck and killed by a DUI driver.

The Tragedy; On June 5th, 1992, at about 6:15pm, Monica’s father was crossing at the corner of El Cajon Boulevard at Jessie Avenue in La Mesa. The investigation showed a vehicle stopped to allow Mr. Pacheco to cross. As he started to cross it was the next approaching vehicle, driven by a 23-year-old DUI driver, that began go around and pass the stopped vehicle into the next lane. In court testimony the DUI driver claimed he saw a man crossing the street but thought this man would stop walking to allow him to continue to drive through. But Monica’s father was already in that second lane and the DUI driver, who should have stopped, instead – struck and killed Monica’s 63 year-old father “John G. Pacheco.” It was soon found this 23-year-old driver had a blood alcohol level of .16, twice over the legal limit, so his thinking and judgement was slowed due to his intoxication – it was also discovered this was the driver’s 4th DUI arrest!  It took my father to stop him – but it also took his life to do it.

In the picture below is the vehicle that struck and killed Monica’s father. The damage to the front windshield was caused by her father’s head striking the windshield, an indentation to the left front end of the vehicle was where his upper body struck. His body was then thrown some twenty to thirty feet into the air coming down head first into the center median across the street crushing his skull and causing his fatal injuries.

More on the driver that killed Monica’s father. Again, this was his fourth DUI arrest. Demonstrating a continuing lack of respect for the law he never bothered to go to court to answer for his last two  DUI arrests, so there were two misdemeanor arrest warrants pending when he struck Monica’s father. From the first DUI, his license had been suspended and he was driving without drivers insurance coverage. Sadly, despite this DUI driver’s previous DUI record, he was sentenced to a mere four years in prison. After serving only about a year and a half of his sentence he was released for good behavior. (But was later thrown back in jail on yet another drug charge a short time later.) But, Monica’s father is still gone and very much missed by Monica and her family – and he has become a part of Monica’s lectures.  Although it’s been 16 years since his death, talking about his death is sometimes painful. But it’s important to Monice to take that pain and educate her audiences on how “precious” life is and not to take your love ones for granted. And, she makes it very clear – she speaks in the memory of all those killed and injured in predictable-preventable traffic collisions every day.

But, lightning can strike a family twice! On February 10th, 2005, just before 9 p.m., Monica’s then 24 year-old daughter “Victoria” was struck broadside by a 17-year-old female, unlicensed -DUI driver! Thanks to her daughter’s alertness and quick action behind the wheel she was able to avoid a direct impact into her driver’s door. The young lady did strike the front end of her car then fled the scene – only to be apprehended a couple blocks away. Victoria did suffer some minor injuries to her neck and back, and her vehicle sustained about $4,000 in damages.  But most important, Monica is very thankful her daughter was able to avoid fatal injuries…and that she was able to see her daughter graduate from paramedic school in June of 06′ and marry a month later in July. Monica feels very blessed to have seen her daughter achieve two important dreams – to become a paramedic and to marry. Some parents are not so fortunate to see their children achieve their dreams.

(Note) – According to police, the 17 year-old DUI driver that hit Monica’s daughter, may not be able to get her driver’s license until age 21, maybe even until age 25 due to the serious charges against her.

Visit this young man’s website to hear his story http://www.theduiexperience.com/

Attention: Meeting Planners/Company Safety Specialists/Safety Stand-down Coordinators:

My passion is safety! Through my work as a “safety educator” my goal is to make my audiences more aware of what’s really happening on our roadways – and how they can increase their chances of survival in reducing the risk factor.  My safe driving lectures are very dramatic, and I do not sugarcoat the message.  Driving is serious business.  For companies – the number reason for the loss of an employee is due to traffic collisions.  I address aggressive driving, distracted-impaired driving, dealing with road rage and much more.  Contact me if you’d like me to speak to your employees.

I also address ways we can be better prepared for a disaster, such as an earthquake or fire. I offer both a professional and personal look at the safety issues we respond to every day – and how to avoid becoming another statistic!

Most of the 9-1-1 calls we respond to are “preventable!” My talks can show you how to increase your chances of survivial by reducing the”risk” factor!

In my “driving safety” lectures: I discuss “distracted, impaired and aggressive” driving…and how to deal with stress and road rage. Your own rage, or that of drivers you encounter. I combine government research, my own research and observation of over 30 years in news broadcasting, (18 years of that in traffic reporting, and my 7 years working directly with El Cajon firefighters & police. I also add real-life “personal experiences” with traffic. I offer my audiences easy common sense “tools” to help make their ride safer and less stressful. Please contact me at (619) 441-1737 for more information, or, to schedule a talk for your class, group, company, Safety Stand-Down or Company Conference. Again – safety is my passion!

Note: I am available to speak outside the El Cajon area by request. Fees are very reasonable. I can be reached at the above phone number or by email at monicazech@cox.net

I am also available to speak on Fire Safety and Disaster Preparedness.

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I look at the age of the audience since I speak to all age groups.

A large number of my requests address age groups from ages 14 and up, from driver education classes and traffic schools, speaking to civic groups, safety stand-downs for both military bases and company conferences. I also talk to elementary schools, on safety – but especially as a guest speaker for Red Ribbon weeks, DARE graduations and for career/motivational talks. I also speak to high school seniors prior to proms and graduations and at “Every 15 Minute” retreats.

In safety, my perspective is from the emergency agency point of view – what we see when responding to the scene of a collision, fire or any incident . And I also offer a personal perspective.

What I cover in my driving safety talks:

• Most common mistakes made by drivers.
• The dangers of driving aggressively – speeding, stress & rage and impaired driving – from cell phones to driving under the influence. I also the huge problem of Red Light Running and STOP Sign running dangers.I explain how the Red Light Photo Enforcement system works.
• What happens when we don’t obey laws made for our safety – from not wearing seat belts, proper motorcycle helmets, speed limits and the DUI issues.
• In addition, I offer a “personal” perspective. With over 30 years of driving experience (and I drive a lot) I’ve encountered more than my share of bad drivers that resulted in minor to life threatening injuries. The most serious of my injuries was caused by a “STOP” sign runner. But on the DUI subject – I loss my father to a DUI driver…and almost loss my daughter to a DUI driver.So I know these issues first-hand.
• I also describe the dynamics of a crash – “WHY” we are injured and killed in crashes. I offer photos and videos that give my audiences a visual example of these dynamics to back-up my data.
• Another important point – “I do not surgarcoat my message.” Some of my photos and videos can be startling, and thought provoking since I deal with reality. I always forewarn my audiences when a photo or video may be somewhat disturbing.*Of course, for younger audiences, I can delete any graphic images.

*Please take a moment and look at my comments/feedback section and you’ll see the very positive comments I’ve gotten from previous talks.

“My goal is to make my audience aware of the dangers that surround us – so they can make better decisions whether they’re walking, are behind the wheel – or riding as a passenger.”

If you’d like to arrange for me to speak to your group – please call me at (619) 441-1737 or e-mail me at monicazech@cox.net

Overall: In driving, my goal is to reduce the risk factors of having a collision. For companies, did you know the “number one” cause of death for losing an employee is a traffic collision! Going to and from work, or if your job involves driving. My talks can help reduce that statistic!

• Teen Talks: Traffic collisions are also the number one cause of death for teenagers, but – most die as “passengers”. I carefully show the dynamics of a crash and actual photos and videos in demonstrating the mistakes made by drivers everyday….and by the way I don’t sugar coat the issues! I attempt to correct what they’ve learned through their direct role in driving – their parents!
• Parenting Group Talks: YES – research shows “parents” are the direct role models for their children in most areas of life – “especially in the area of driving”. Sadly, research has also shown more and more parents are injuring and killing their own children while driving under the influence of alcohol – and/or speeding. We’ll discuss priorities.I’ve been able to help parents be more aware of the dangers they’re putting their families into every day by how they address safety! The mixed messages we send as parents, that even by the way we walk or drive has a direct affect on our families. Ask yourself – “Does alcohol mean more to you than the safety of your own family?” Using photos, I show some end results of parents who forgot about the safety of their family by the way they drive.
• In “fire safety”: Through National and local research – and through the eyes of our firefighters, I can discuss the dangers of fire and how we can better protect ourselves, our families and our homes. I can also show photos from recent fires – and why some homes and lives were lost…and how we can better protect ourselves for the future.

Note: See my Safety Lecture Feedback section for comments from previous audiences.

Or send your speaker request to:

Monica Zech
Public Information Officer – Safety Education
City of El Cajon
200 Civic Center Way
El Cajon, Ca. 92020

*Note: I do speak outside the San Diego County area. My fees are very reasonable – depending on my availability, any personal time off if needed, and the cost of any airfare or hotel accommodations if needed.

My actual speakers fee is negotiable in working with your budget. If needed, please feel fee to arrange for a sponsor to pay my fees. Remember, due to demand, it’s best to please call me well in advance of your event for better availability.

Among some of the groups I speak to:
Schools (all grade levels)
Life Skills Classes
Colleges
Driver education/training courses
Parenting Groups – (one of my favorites in developing better safety role models)
Company Safety Meetings/Briefings
Company Safety Conferences
Major Safety Conferences
Military Base Safety Stand-downs
Traffic School
Career Talks – Motivational and for those interested in careers in EMS-Emergency Medical Services

Guest speaker for:
“Every 15 Minutes” presentations or retreats
“Red Ribbon Week”
“DARE” and other safety assemblies

Educators, concerned family and friends – I highly recommend the following program for driver education classes, traffic schools or if you’re concerned about someone you know that drinks alcoholic beverages and then drives. To fully understand the dangers of this practice attend one of these meetings. – Monica Zech

MADD Victim Impact Panels – What Are They?:

Mothers Against Drunk Driving believes that drunk drivers and potential impaired drivers need to hear what happens to the victims in impaired driving crashes. The Victim Impact Panel is a tool for accomplishing this goal.

MADD chapters select a panel of three or four victims to speak briefly about the impaired driving collisions in which they were injured or in which a loved one was killed, and how those crashes have impacted their personal lives.

Speakers do not blame or judge those who attend the panel. They simply tell their experiences and relate how their lives and families have been affected by the crashes. A Victim Impact Panel Coordinator moderates the panel to monitor time, etc. Victims never speak to groups in which their own offenders are present. There is no interaction between victims and offenders during the panel presentation, however attendees are invited to talk with the speakers after the presentation.

Judges, probation officers and military commanders require convicted DUI offenders to attend a Victim Impact Panel as an element of their sentences. The panel does not replace conventional sentencing but adds a creative component to it. Immediately after the sentence is pronounced, the offender is informed, verbally and in writing, of the date, time and place of the panel to be attended.

Letters of Compliance are issued to the offenders who attend the panel. Offenders who fail to attend must return to court for appropriate sanction.

All offenders who attend the panel must not be impaired by any amount of alcohol or other drugs. Impaired offenders will not be allowed to remain.

MADD San Diego County conducts seven Victim Impact Panels monthly – Four in English and three in Spanish.

The schedule is as follows:

Chula Vista Courthouse Jury Lounge, 500 Third Avenue, 91910

English – 3rd Tuesday Evening, 4:45pm

Spanish – 4th Tuesday Evening, 4:45pm

El Cajon Courthouse Jury Lounge, 250 East Main Street, 92020,

English – 3rd Thursday, 4:45pm

San Diego Hall of Justice Jury Lounge, 330 West Broadway, 92101

English – 2nd Tuesday Evening, 6:00pm

Spanish – 3rd Wednesday Evening, 6:00pm

Vista Courthouse Jury Lounge, 325 South Melrose, 92083

English – 4th Wednesday Evening, 4:45pm

Spanish – 2nd Wednesday Evening, 4:45pm

• For further information call the Victim Impact Panel information line at: (760) 871-2008.

Conquering the Fear of Public Speaking
by Lain Ehmann

Sweaty palms. Upset stomach. Dizziness. Shortness of breath. Rapid heartbeat. These might sound like symptoms of the flu, but if you have a fear of public speaking, chances are you know them all too well.

A common condition

Fear of speaking in public is extremely common, says David Greenberg, author of Simply Speaking! The No-Sweat Way to Prepare and Deliver Presentations and member of the National Speakers Association (NSA).

“According to the Book of Lists, the number one fear of American adults is speaking in front of groups,” says Greenberg, adding that fear of death ranks at number seven on the same list. Greenberg himself, who speaks several times a week to audiences of up to 1,000 people, admits he still feels nervous before each and every presentation.

Depending on which scientific studies you read, anywhere from 44% to 85% of people feel some level of anxiety or discomfort before speaking or performing in public, as do many professional performers, says Howard Gurr, PhD, a New York psychologist who treats professional musicians and singers for stage fright.

Causes

According to the experts, several factors contribute to the nerves many people feel at the sight of a podium and microphone, including fear of embarrassment, fear of failure, and fear of rejection.

“People just don’t want to be on center stage,” explains Marjorie Brody, author of Speaking is an Audience-Centered Sport.

Using Fear to Your Advantage

The ironic thing is that a touch of stage fright can actually help you be a more effective speaker. You can use the fear of failure to promote your success, if you allow it to motivate instead of discourage you.

Take-away Tips

The experts offer these tips on how to conquer your fear of public speaking:

Organize your thoughts

When preparing your speech, organize your thoughts and create short notes to bring with you.

Keep it simple

Limit yourself to two or three main points, and use your own stories to illustrate your message, recommends Greenberg, who says people will remember your stories long after they’ve forgotten you or the topic of your presentation.

Practice, practice, practice

This doesn’t mean memorizing your speech word-for-word. “You want to know your material, but you don’t want to be locked into some iron-clad presentation format,” says Dr. Gurr. And although you should rehearse aloud, Dr. Gurr suggests you avoid “practicing the life out of your presentation.”

Think about your delivery

Notice your rate of speech, your voice’s tone and volume, your energy level and your gestures, and vary them all for maximum effect. “Always be aware of monotony,” says Ty Boyd, a member of the Speakers Hall of Fame and former president of the NSA.

Arrive early

On the day of your presentation, arrive early, not just to address any last-minute issues but also to “meet and greet.” Mingling with the audience for a few minutes can establish a friendly tone even before you begin your presentation.

Focus on the information and the audience

When the butterflies take flight in your abdomen, tell yourself a little nervousness is nothing to be ashamed of, and remind yourself you don’t need to be perfect. In fact, unless you’re a celebrity, says Brody, “realize that people are not coming to see you; they’re coming to get the information.” Once you take the focus off your performance and put it onto your audience, you buy yourself some breathing room and remember why you’re presenting in the first place.

Don’t Dwell On Your Errors

What if your nightmares actually come true and you lose your spot or drop your note cards? “What’s really important is recovering gracefully,” says Greenberg. “If you don’t call attention to it, no one’s going to notice.” He adds that a brief pause of a second or two can seem a natural part of a presentation to the audience, even if it seems to last an eternity when all eyes are on you. If the gaffe is so large as to be unmistakable like mispronouncing the name of your company’s president or accidentally deleting your PowerPoint presentation admit you’ve made a mistake and move on. Making a blunder or two can actually give the audience permission to relax, especially if you handle it with humor.

“The fact is, if you aren’t perfect, your audience will relate to you better,” says Greenberg.

RESOURCES:

Brody M. Speaking Is an Audience-Centered Sport. Career Skills Press;1999.

Greenberg D. Simply Speaking!: The No-Sweat Way to Prepare & Deliver Presentations. Goldenleaf Publications; 2000.

National Speakers Association

http://www.nsaspeaker.org

Toastmasters International

http://www.toastmasters.org

Courtesy of the EL CAJON FIRE DEPARTMENT – Safety Educator Monica Zech For educational materials, or if you’d like a speaker for your school, group or company, give me a call at (619) 441-1615 or e-mail me at monicazech@cox.net or through my work email at mzech@ci.el-cajon.ca.us

*My talks provide both a professional and personal look at what it takes to increase your survival in case of fire. Making you more aware of the problems we’re seeing in our emergency calls, what you may have missed hearing about in the news and throught stats. My goal is to make you more aware of these problems that surround us to reduce the “risk factors” of experiencing a tragedy. These talks have been in big demand for parenting classes, schools, Colleges, military safety stand downs, company safety briefings or conferences and for civic and senior groups. The content of these safety talks can include any or all of the following topics, utilizing slides and VHS videos.

The Basic Facts About FIRE…And Other Safety Tips:

Fire kills an estimated 5-thousand people a year! Of the 91-thousand fires reported yearly in the United States, most fires occur at night while we’re asleep. Most people die of smoke inhalation from a fire – not burns. Fire is very dangerous – once a fire starts it can double in size every 30 seconds. Don’t think it can’t happen to you or your family. Do everything you can to protect & educate your family or workplace. Most fires & related deaths can be prevented – so prevention through education is our mission – saving lives is our goal.

*Fire Safety Education Fact sheets check – The United States Fire Administration

*For General & Local Fire Safety programs in the area of “Burn Prevention” and other related issues – please contact, and if possible support through your donations, The Burn Institute click or call (858)541-2277.

*FIRE SAFETY TIPS – Talks Available (recommended 1st Grade ages & up)

*PARENTS – To prevent most home fires -it’s “proper supervision” of young children and making sure matches and lighters are out of reach of young children or locked away! More young children start home fires after seeing their parents lighting cigarettes and barbecues and imitate this behavior. And “never” leave burning candles and cooking food “unattended”!

*Most important – SMOKE DETECTORS – Make sure you have a functioning life-saving “smoke detector” in your home and workplace! The firefighters I work with have found these to be such lifesavers they have a smoke detector in every single room of their home. At $5-$10 each they’re a small investment to protect your family and home. To keep it functioning, change the battery every 6 months, check it/test it at least once a month – if not once a week. Smoke detectors should be replaced every 10 years. Some detectors make a chirping or beeping sound to let you know the battery needs to be replaced. Never take a battery out of a detector for use in toys etc. If you disabled it due to cooking-restore it to working order as soon as you finish cooking. Sleep with your bedroom door closed, smoke from a fire can be kept out of a room for about 20 to 30 minutes. Install at least one carbon monoxide detector in your home…if you’re concerned about your heater have San Diego Gas & Electric check it!

*Have a home escape plan, plan it and practice it with your family at least twice a year. Most important have a meeting place outside, a place you’ll all meet to make sure everyone got out safely before calling 9-1-1…this way no one runs back into a burning building thinking loved ones are still trapped inside. Never go into a burning building, not for pictures or any material items – it’s not worth your life.

*If you live in a two or more story home make sure you have a window escape ladder in each bedroom, possibly in a box under the window or under the bed. These can be purchased at a Home Depot or Target.

• Keep matches and lighters hidden away from children.
• Do Not leave candles burning or food cooking “unattended” – these are 2 major fire hazards we see most often.
• Never leave small appliances running or plugged in – such as fans, heaters or coffee pots
• Avoid overloading wall outlets and extension cords.
• Keep outdoor electrical connectors above ground and out of puddles and snow.
• Dispose of fireplace ashes into a metal container until cold.
• After parties, check around and under sofa and chair cushions for smoldering cigarettes. (Provide lots of ash trays or better yet, don’t allow smoking indoors)
• Have an operable fire extinguisher readily available.
• Commuting with hot liquids? Those who commute with hot coffee, hot chocolate or tea, in a cup or commuter mug, could accidently pour hot liquids onto their laps while driving – or at the workplace. The growth of hot coffee shops has added to this growing problem.

Fire Safety – Children:

• Teach your child how and when to call 9-1-1
• Teach your child NEVER to play with matches or lighters – keep these items out of reach or hidden – supervision of a child/children is very important! Many of the fires we’ve seen start from a child or children left playing alone in a bedroom.

*According to Ms.Sue Cox, spokesperson for Children’s Hospital – Visiting family & friends and colder weather presents it’s own share of hazards you may not know about. The following are examples of such hazards she has seen that have led to injuries and in some cases death:

• Family & friends visiting? Watch your young child very carefully, they may get into suitcases filled with hazards such as medicines, razors etc. In general, the supervision of children may suffer as you tend to guests.
• Colder temperatures – hot beverage use rises – keep hot beverage mugs and coffee pots out of reach of children. Keeps handles of pots and pans on the stove turned inward.

From the Californian Department of Forestry – How To Protect Your Family & Home:

You Are At Risk! California is home to millions of residents who enjoy the state’s beautiful scenery and warm climate. But most people do not realize that these qualities also create the MOST SEVERE WILDFIRE CONDITIONS IN THE WORLD! Each year, thousands of acres of California wildland and hundreds of homes are destroyed during a fire season that lasts from May to October – and in some areas all year long.

If you live in the foothills, grasslands, or mountains of California, YOU ARE AT RISK!

Making the fire hazard even worse is the growing population in new communities that were once wildland areas surrounding California’s major cities. This rapid growth places even greater strain on the state’s firefighting forces, who can’t place a fire engine at every home.

Fire protection is everyone’s responsibility:
To protect your family and your possessions, you must follow certain steps — both inside and outside your home — to make your property “Fire Safe.”

Inside Your Home:
Smoke detectors have saved many lives by alerting residents to fires inside the home. Smoke detectors should be positioned on the wall or ceiling just outside each bedroom. If you have a multi-level home, install a detector on every floor. Sleep with your bedroom door closed, but make sure you can clearly hear the detector in the hall. If there is any doubt, or if you smoke, place an additional detector inside your bedroom. Be sure to test your smoke detectors monthly and replace batteries twice a year, perhaps when clocks are changed in the spring and fall.

Portable fire extinguishers save lives and property by putting out or containing small fires until the fire department arrives. It is most important to place fire extinguishers in your kitchen and garage. Make sure that each member of your family can hold and operate your fire extinguishers and knows where they are located inside the home. Remember that fire extinguishers need to be maintained and must be recharged after every use.

Consider installing a home sprinkler system. Home sprinkler systems are one of the most reliable and effective ways to protect your home because they provide an immediate response to extinguish a fire. They also can extinguish a fire when you are asleep or when you are away from home.

Outside Your Home:
Your roof is the most vulnerable part of your house because it can easily catch fire from wind-blown sparks. It is highly recommended that you build or re-roof with fire resistive roofing materials. Also be sure to clear pine needles, leaves or other debris from your roof and gutters. And remove any dead branches overhanging your roof.

Remove any tree branches within 10 feet of your chimney. Cover your chimney outlet and stovepipe with a nonflammable screen of ? inch or smaller mesh.

Build or remodel with fire resistive building materials, such as brick or stucco.

Enclose the undersides of balconies and above-ground decks with fire resistive materials.

Limit the size and number of windows in your home that face large areas of vegetation. Even from a distance of 30 feet away, the heat from a wildfire is enough to ignite the furnishings inside your house. Install only dual-paned or triple-paned windows to reduce the potential of breakage in a fire.

Your Yard:
Create a “defensible space” by removing all dry grass, brush, and dead leaves at least 30, but better yet 100 feet away feet from your home. Replace native plants with ornamental landscaping plants that are fire resistive.

Space trees and shrubs at least 10 feet apart. Reduce the number of trees in heavily wooded areas.

For trees smaller than 18 feet, prune lower branches within six feet of the ground to keep ground fires from spreading into tree tops.

Stack firewood and scrap woodpiles at least 30 feet from any structure and clear away flammable vegetation that is within 10 feet of these woodpiles.

Locate LPG tanks (butane and propane) at least 30 feet from any structure and surround them with 10 feet of clearance.

*Defensible space must be regularly maintained to be effective.

Your Emergency Water Supply:
Maintain an emergency water supply, that meets fire department standards, through one of the following: a community water/hydrant system; a cooperative emergency storage tank with neighbors;
a minimum storage supply of 2,500 gallons on your property.
Clearly mark all emergency water sources and maintain easy firefighter access to these water sources.

If your water comes from a well, consider an emergency generator to operate the pump during a power failure.

Access to Your House:
You should know at least two exit routes from your neighborhood in case of emergency evacuation. If there id only one, evacuate if there’s the slightest chance of raging brush fires near your home. Don’t wait for someone to knock on your door to tell you to evacuate.

Make sure that any road leading up to your house allows two-way traffic, is not too steep and does not have curves too sharp to accommodate large emergency vehicles.

Driveways and bridges must be strong enough to carry heavy emergency vehicles, including bulldozers carried on large trucks.

Make sure dead-end roads and long driveways have turnaround areas that are wide enough for emergency vehicles.

*Very Important: Your house address and street name should be printed in numbers and letters that are at least four inches tall, on contrasting color background. They should be visible from all directions of travel for at least 150 feet. HELP US FIND YOU!

Be sure that your street name and house number are not duplicated elsewhere in the county.

If your house is set back from your street or road, post your address at the entrance of your driveway.

Emergency Preparedness:
Store at least a three-day supply of drinking water and food that does not require refrigeration and generally does not need cooking.

*Store first aid supplies, portable radio, flashlight, emergency cooking equipment, portable lanterns and batteries. Prepare a list of valuables to take with you in case of evacuation; if possible, store these valuables together to save time later.

Pre-plan an escape route from your home and neighborhood. Designate an emergency meeting place for the reunion of family members escaping in separate vehicles, and establish a contact point to communicate with concerned relatives.

Practice emergency exit drills regularly.

Make sure that all family members are ready to protect themselves with
STOP, DROP AND ROLL if their clothes should catch on fire.

Find out more about Fire Safe!

The California Department of Forestry and Fire Protection (CDF), a department of the Resources Agency of California, provides leadership and services to protect and encourage sound land management of the forest, brush and grass-covered lands in California.

Fo additional information contact the local office of the California Department of Forestry at (619)588-0364.